HOW TO STOP WORRYING AND START LIVING BY DALE CARNEGIE - ANIMATED BOOK REVIEW
I SPENT MOST OF MY LIFE CONSTANTLY WORRYING
ABOUT STUFF. NOW FAST FORWARD TO TODAY,
AND IT'S EXTREMELY RARE THAT I WORRY ABOUT. ANYTHING,
AND WHEN I DO, IT USUALLY LASTS ABOUT 20-30 SECONDS UNTIL
I CATCH MYSELF AND STOP. AND CULTIVATING THAT HAS MADE MY LIFE LITERALLY
A HUNDRED TIMES BETTER.
SO I THINK IF YOU'RE LOOKING FOR WAYS TO STOP
WORRYING AND STRESSING, YOU UNDERSTAND THE BENEFITS AND I DON'T REALLY
HAVE TO SELL YOU ON IT... BUT JUST TO GIVE YOU A VERY SHORT SUMMARY:
YOU CAN ACTUALLY START HAVING TIME TO ENJOY. LIFE.
YOU WON'T BE CONSTANTLY MISERABLE, AND YOU WON'T BE DESTROYING YOUR HEALTH
AND MAKING YOURSELF CONSTANTLY SICK. AND I THINK THAT SOUNDS PRETTY GOOD.
SO THE TWO BOOKS THAT HAD A HUGE IMPACT ON
ME. WERE ECKHART TOLLE'S THE POWER OF NOW,
AND VIKTOR FRANKL'S MAN'S SEARCH FOR MEANING, WHICH I RECOMMEND EVERYONE READ.
BUT TODAY, I'M GOING TO TALK ABOUT FOUR OF MY FAVORITE
IDEAS FROM ANOTHER GREAT BOOK, DALE CARNEGIE'S HOW TO STOP WORRYING AND START
LIVING. SO THE FIRST BIG IDEA IS:
ASK YOURSELF, WHAT'S THE WORST THING THAT CAN HAPPEN? I REMEMBER THE FIRST YEAR IN COLLEGE
CONSTANTLY WORRYING ABOUT MY GRADES. WHAT WAS I GOING TO DO IF I GOT A B+
INSTEAD OF AN A? WELL, SURELY MY LIFE WOULD BE OVER
AND I WOULD NEVER AMOUNT TO ANYTHING IN LIFE.
LIKE, THAT WAS SERIOUSLY THE THOUGHT PROCESS
GOING THROUGH MY 17 YEAR OLD HEAD. NOW FAST FORWARD FIVE YEARS,
I WAS CLEANING A FEW DAYS AGO. AND FOUND MY DIPLOMA IN SOME WEIRD PLACE IN
MY HOUSE. HAVEN'T EVEN OPENED THE BOX SINCE I GOT IT,
AND WILL NEVER EVEN END UP USING IT FOR THE.
REST OF MY LIFE. THAT IS A PERFECT EXAMPLE OF WHAT YOUR BRAIN
DOES TO YOU. IT STARTS TO FREAK OUT WITH UNCERTAINTY.
IF YOU DON'T CLEARLY DEFINE THE WORST THING, YOUR BRAIN WILL FIND A WAY TO EQUATE YOU GETTING
A B+ TO YOU COMPLETELY RUINING YOUR LIFE. BUT IN REALITY, THE WORST THING IS NEVER REALLY
THAT BAD.
I GET MESSAGES ALL THE TIME FROM PEOPLE SAYING,
"HEY, I'M REALLY INSPIRED BY YOUR CHANNEL." "I WANT TO START MY OWN, BUT I'M EXPERIENCING
A LOT OF RESISTANCE." AND HERE'S THE THING... SO DID I.
YOUR BRAIN'S DEFAULT IS LITERALLY TO THINK, "I WILL MAKE A VIDEO. PEOPLE WILL HATE IT."
"EVERYONE WILL MAKE FUN OF ME." "PEOPLE WILL GET ANGRY."
"THEY WILL COME AND BURN DOWN MY HOUSE." LIKE SERIOUSLY, THOSE ARE YOUR EITHER CONSCIOUS
OR SUBCONSCIOUS THOUGHTS. WHAT IS THE REALITY THOUGH?
THE WORST THING THAT WILL HAPPEN TO YOU.
IN REALITY IS A NEGATIVE COMMENT.
THAT IS IT. AND IT'S THE SAME THING WITH EVERYTHING ELSE
LIKE STARTING A BUSINESS, OR GIVING A PUBLIC SPEECH.
I HAVE BASICALLY NO EXPERIENCE SPEAKING IN. FRONT OF LARGE CROWDS,
SO IF I GAVE A SPEECH RIGHT NOW IT WOULD PROBABLY. SUCK.
I MIGHT HAVE STAGE-FRIGHT, I MIGHT BE AWKWARD, BUT I WOULD NEVER, NEVER REFUSE TO DO IT.
WHY? BECAUSE WHAT'S THE WORST THING THAT CAN HAPPEN?
IT'S NOT THAT THE WHOLE WORLD IS GOING TO.
MAKE FUN OF ME,
IT'S NOT THAT PEOPLE ARE GOING TO TRY TO KILL. ME
EVERYWHERE I GO AFTER MY SPEECH. NO! IT'S SOME GUY IN THE CROWD WHO NEVER EVEN
GOT INVITED UP ON THE STAGE. THINKING THAT MY SPEECH ISN'T THAT GREAT!!
LIKE WHO CARES?! SO LET ME GIVE YOU ANOTHER EXAMPLE...
OUR WASHING MACHINE BROKE DOWN.
NOW,
IF I WASN'T CONSCIOUS OF MY WORRYING, I WOULD'VE GOTTEN SUPER PISSED OFF, RIGHT?
THAT'S THE NORMAL REACTION TO IT. LIKE I'VE NEVER SEEN ANYONE SAYING,
"OH THE WASHING MACHINE BROKE DOWN?" "THAT'S GREAT. NO BIG DEAL."
NO, THAT'S SUPPOSED TO PISS YOU OFF. NOW YOU'LL NEVER HAVE CLEAN CLOTHES AGAIN.
LOOK,
I SPENT THE FIRST 17 YEARS OF MY LIFE. WASHING MY CLOTHES WITH MY HANDS
WITH SOME SHITTY RUSSIAN DETERGENT. SO WHAT'S THE WORST THING THAT CAN HAPPEN?
THAT I HAVE TO WASH A COUPLE OF SHIRTS. WITH THIS AMAZING COCONUT SOAP I HAVE
FOR A FEW DAYS UNTIL THE WASHING MACHINE.
GETS FIXED?
OR, THAT I CAN'T WEAR MY FAVORITE SHIRT, SO NOW I HAVE TO PICK FROM THE TWENTY
OTHER AWESOME SHIRTS IN MY CLOSET? I MEAN, IT'S SO RIDICULOUS!
ALWAYS ASK YOURSELF, WHAT'S THE WORST THING THAT CAN HAPPEN?
CLEARLY DEFINE THE WORST OUTCOME, AND YOU'LL SOON START TO REALIZE
HOW RIDICULOUS MOST OF YOUR WORRIES ARE, WHICH ACTUALLY LEADS US TO MY NEXT FAVORITE
IDEA... THE ABSURDITY OF IT ALL. SO I HAVE A FRIEND WHO'S CONSTANTLY WORRIED
ABOUT EVERYTHING. AND HE CALLED ME,
AND HE STARTED TO TELL ME ABOUT.
ALL THE STUFF HE'S STRESSED OUT
AND WORRIED ABOUT. AND I SAID,
"OKAY. LOOK. JUST STOP." CARNEGIE TELLS A STORY OF THIS GUY IN WWII,
WHO'S STUCK IN A SUBMARINE.
AND BASICALLY KNOWS THAT HE'LL BE DYING IN
THE NEXT FEW HOURS. AND HE SITS THERE THINKING ABOUT
ALL THE STUFF HE USED TO WORRY ABOUT AT HOME, AND HOW ABSURD IT WAS,
AND MAKES A PROMISE TO NEVER WASTE HIS LIFE. AGAIN LIKE THAT
IF HE SURVIVES. NOW, THAT MIGHT BE HARD TO RESONATE WITH,
SO LET ME GIVE YOU A MORE CONTEMPORARY EXAMPLE.
PEOPLE ARE HAVING THEIR HEADS CHOPPED OFF
EVERY SINGLE DAY. EVERY SINGLE DAY! THE ONLY REASON IT'S NOT YOU
IS BECAUSE YOU WERE BORN IN A CERTAIN PLACE. AND THEY WEREN'T.
THAT'S IT! NOW GOING BACK TO MY FRIEND,
I TOLD HIM, "LOOK, HERE'S WHAT I WANT YOU TO DO."
"EVERY DAY, YOU WILL START YOUR MORNING. BY WATCHING SOMEBODY'S HEAD BEING CHOPPED
OFF." "AND THEN YOU'LL GO ABOUT THE REST OF THE
DAY." AND HE STARTED FREAKING OUT ABOUT
HOW HE CAN'T DO THAT AND.
HOW HE DOESN'T LIKE BLOOD AND
WHATEVER... NOW, HERE'S THE THING.
I KNOW THAT'S REALLY CRASS AND MORBID, BUT I DON'T CARE!
IF YOU DON'T WORRY ABOUT STUFF, GREAT! YOU DON'T HAVE TO WATCH ANYTHING.
BUT IF YOU'RE WORRIED ABOUT STUPID SHIT. ALL THE TIME,
YOU HAVE A DISEASE! SO YOU EITHER TREAT YOURSELF,
OR NEVER ASK ABOUT HOW YOU CAN STOP WORRYING. AGAIN.
EVER.
HERE'S WHAT I WILL GUARANTEE YOU.
IF YOU START YOUR DAY BY. WATCHING SOMEONE ELSE
HAVE THEIR HEAD CHOPPED OFF, NOTHING AND I MEAN ABSOLUTELY NOTHING
COULD POSSIBLY HAPPEN TO YOU FOR THE REST. OF THE DAY
THAT YOU COULD GET PISSED OFF ABOUT. AND NOT FEEL LIKE A COMPLETE RETARD.
YES, WHEN YOU'VE SEEN SOMEONE'S HEAD CHOPPED
OFF, YOU WILL HAVE A WEIRD FEELING INSIDE YOU
AS SOON AS YOU START TO COMPLAIN ABOUT. HOW YOU DESERVE TO BE PAID MORE AT YOUR JOB,
OR WHAT YOU'RE GOING TO DO NOW SINCE YOU GOT. A B+ INSTEAD OF AN A,
OR HOW YOUR WASHING MACHINE IS BROKEN. YOU'LL REALIZE THAT IF THAT GUY HAD BEEN
GIVEN THE CHANCE TO LIVE.
AND WEAR THAT SAME DIRTY SHIRT
FOR THE REST OF HIS LIFE. WITHOUT EVER BEING ABLE TO WASH IT,
HE WOULD HAVE BEEN THE HAPPIEST MAN ALIVE. REALIZE THE ABSURDITY OF IT ALL. THE THIRD BIG IDEA:
STAYING BUSY.
NOW I DON'T MEAN THE AVERAGE BUSY PERSON.
ACTUALLY, THOSE ARE THE PEOPLE WHO WORRY THE. MOST.
THE GUY WHO WORKS 12-HOUR DAYS, AND THEN COMES HOME AND WATCHES FOX ALL NIGHT
WORRYING ABOUT WHETHER SOME GUY CAN MARRY. ANOTHER GUY
OR ABOUT ALL THE FOREIGNERS WHO WILL COME. AND TAKE HIS JOB,
YOU KNOW, BECAUSE HE IS THE ONLY ONE ENTITLED.
TO THAT JOB. I'M NOT TALKING ABOUT THAT KIND OF BUSY...
HERE'S HOW I LIKE STAY BUSY... READ A BOOK THAT I LIKE.
GO TO THE GYM WITH MY GIRLFRIEND. PLAY AROUND ON THE PIANO AND COMPOSE.
COOK AMAZING FOOD.
WORK ON A PROJECT I'M PASSIONATE ABOUT. NOW, HERE'S WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU DO THAT...
YOUR BRAIN CAN'T THINK OF TWO THINGS AT ONE. TIME.
IT JUST DOESN'T HAVE THAT CAPABILITY. YOU CAN TRY RIGHT NOW IF YOU WANT.
YOU CAN'T THINK OF YOUR BROKEN WASHING MACHINE.
AND AT THE SAME TIME,
THINK OF HOW MUCH YOU LOVE PLAYING SOCCER. IT'S NOT HOW YOUR BRAIN WORKS. SO THE BEST WAY TO GET RID OF THE NEGATIVE
THOUGHTS IN YOUR HEAD. IS TO ACTUALLY START PUTTING POSITIVE THOUGHTS
IN THERE.
GET BUSY WITH WHAT YOU LOVE
AND YOUR BRAIN SIMPLY WON'T EVEN HAVE THE. ABILITY TO WORRY. AND FINALLY A QUESTION THAT
REALLY REALLY RESONATED WITH ME. HERE'S WHAT YOU'RE GOING TO DO IN YOUR LIFE...
YOU'RE GOING TO WORK AND WORRY YOUR ENTIRE.
LIFE
SO YOU CAN GATHER A BUNCH OF STUFF, LIKE YOUR HOUSE AND ALL THE STUPID SHIT IN
IT. NOW... IF YOU'RE LUCKY,
AFTER 50 YEARS OF ALL THAT WORRY AND STRESS, ALL YOUR STUFF MIGHT BE WORTH A MILLION DOLLARS. HERE'S THE QUESTION,
WOULD YOU SELL YOUR LEGS FOR A MILLION DOLLARS? LET ME ASK YOU THIS,
WOULD YOU SELL YOUR LEGS FOR A BILLION DOLLARS? I WOULDN'T.
AND YOU PROBABLY WOULDN'T EITHER.
WOULD YOU SELL YOUR ARMS FOR ANOTHER BILLION
DOLLARS? NO? THERE YOU GO,
YOU ALREADY HAVE SOMETHING THAT YOU VALUE. AT TWO BILLION DOLLARS!
ACTUALLY, HOPEFULLY MORE... BUT, YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE ALL ZEN,
YOU COULD BE A GREEDY CAPITALIST LIKE ME. AND UNDERSTAND THIS.
NOW HERE'S WHAT YOU'RE GOING TO DO...
YOU'RE GOING TO IGNORE AND NOT UTILIZE. SOMETHING WORTH TWO BILLION DOLLARS,
BECAUSE YOU'RE TOO BUSY WORRYING AND STRESSING. ABOUT THE THINGS THAT MIGHT AMOUNT TO 1 MILLION
DOLLARS. AT THE END OF YOUR LIFE.
OH, AND YOU'LL BE CONSIDERED REALLY LUCKY.
IF THAT HAPPENS BY THE WAY! ALRIGHT,
I DON'T KNOW IF YOU'RE SEEING HOW CRAZY THAT. IS,
BUT THAT'S KIND OF LIKE HAVING A HUGE MANSION, A PERSONAL JET,
EVERY SINGLE CAR YOU EVER WISHED FOR, AND NOT USING AND ENJOYING THOSE THINGS,
BECAUSE YOU'RE TOO WORRIED ABOUT ONE DAY. BEING ABLE TO BUY A COROLLA.
THAT IS CRAZY! ...AND SAD. YOU ALREADY HAVE EVERYTHING THAT YOU VALUE
AT BILLIONS AND BILLIONS OF DOLLARS.
SO STOP IGNORING, WASTING, AND TREATING IT
LIKE SHIT FOR HOURS AND DAYS, SO YOU CAN WORRY AND BITCH ABOUT
HOW YOUR PHONE BILL WENT UP FROM A $100 TO. A $120..
ABOUT STUFF. NOW FAST FORWARD TO TODAY,
AND IT'S EXTREMELY RARE THAT I WORRY ABOUT. ANYTHING,
AND WHEN I DO, IT USUALLY LASTS ABOUT 20-30 SECONDS UNTIL
I CATCH MYSELF AND STOP. AND CULTIVATING THAT HAS MADE MY LIFE LITERALLY
A HUNDRED TIMES BETTER.
SO I THINK IF YOU'RE LOOKING FOR WAYS TO STOP
WORRYING AND STRESSING, YOU UNDERSTAND THE BENEFITS AND I DON'T REALLY
HAVE TO SELL YOU ON IT... BUT JUST TO GIVE YOU A VERY SHORT SUMMARY:
YOU CAN ACTUALLY START HAVING TIME TO ENJOY. LIFE.
YOU WON'T BE CONSTANTLY MISERABLE, AND YOU WON'T BE DESTROYING YOUR HEALTH
AND MAKING YOURSELF CONSTANTLY SICK. AND I THINK THAT SOUNDS PRETTY GOOD.
SO THE TWO BOOKS THAT HAD A HUGE IMPACT ON
ME. WERE ECKHART TOLLE'S THE POWER OF NOW,
AND VIKTOR FRANKL'S MAN'S SEARCH FOR MEANING, WHICH I RECOMMEND EVERYONE READ.
BUT TODAY, I'M GOING TO TALK ABOUT FOUR OF MY FAVORITE
IDEAS FROM ANOTHER GREAT BOOK, DALE CARNEGIE'S HOW TO STOP WORRYING AND START
LIVING. SO THE FIRST BIG IDEA IS:
ASK YOURSELF, WHAT'S THE WORST THING THAT CAN HAPPEN? I REMEMBER THE FIRST YEAR IN COLLEGE
CONSTANTLY WORRYING ABOUT MY GRADES. WHAT WAS I GOING TO DO IF I GOT A B+
INSTEAD OF AN A? WELL, SURELY MY LIFE WOULD BE OVER
AND I WOULD NEVER AMOUNT TO ANYTHING IN LIFE.
LIKE, THAT WAS SERIOUSLY THE THOUGHT PROCESS
GOING THROUGH MY 17 YEAR OLD HEAD. NOW FAST FORWARD FIVE YEARS,
I WAS CLEANING A FEW DAYS AGO. AND FOUND MY DIPLOMA IN SOME WEIRD PLACE IN
MY HOUSE. HAVEN'T EVEN OPENED THE BOX SINCE I GOT IT,
AND WILL NEVER EVEN END UP USING IT FOR THE.
REST OF MY LIFE. THAT IS A PERFECT EXAMPLE OF WHAT YOUR BRAIN
DOES TO YOU. IT STARTS TO FREAK OUT WITH UNCERTAINTY.
IF YOU DON'T CLEARLY DEFINE THE WORST THING, YOUR BRAIN WILL FIND A WAY TO EQUATE YOU GETTING
A B+ TO YOU COMPLETELY RUINING YOUR LIFE. BUT IN REALITY, THE WORST THING IS NEVER REALLY
THAT BAD.
I GET MESSAGES ALL THE TIME FROM PEOPLE SAYING,
"HEY, I'M REALLY INSPIRED BY YOUR CHANNEL." "I WANT TO START MY OWN, BUT I'M EXPERIENCING
A LOT OF RESISTANCE." AND HERE'S THE THING... SO DID I.
YOUR BRAIN'S DEFAULT IS LITERALLY TO THINK, "I WILL MAKE A VIDEO. PEOPLE WILL HATE IT."
"EVERYONE WILL MAKE FUN OF ME." "PEOPLE WILL GET ANGRY."
"THEY WILL COME AND BURN DOWN MY HOUSE." LIKE SERIOUSLY, THOSE ARE YOUR EITHER CONSCIOUS
OR SUBCONSCIOUS THOUGHTS. WHAT IS THE REALITY THOUGH?
THE WORST THING THAT WILL HAPPEN TO YOU.
IN REALITY IS A NEGATIVE COMMENT.
THAT IS IT. AND IT'S THE SAME THING WITH EVERYTHING ELSE
LIKE STARTING A BUSINESS, OR GIVING A PUBLIC SPEECH.
I HAVE BASICALLY NO EXPERIENCE SPEAKING IN. FRONT OF LARGE CROWDS,
SO IF I GAVE A SPEECH RIGHT NOW IT WOULD PROBABLY. SUCK.
I MIGHT HAVE STAGE-FRIGHT, I MIGHT BE AWKWARD, BUT I WOULD NEVER, NEVER REFUSE TO DO IT.
WHY? BECAUSE WHAT'S THE WORST THING THAT CAN HAPPEN?
IT'S NOT THAT THE WHOLE WORLD IS GOING TO.
MAKE FUN OF ME,
IT'S NOT THAT PEOPLE ARE GOING TO TRY TO KILL. ME
EVERYWHERE I GO AFTER MY SPEECH. NO! IT'S SOME GUY IN THE CROWD WHO NEVER EVEN
GOT INVITED UP ON THE STAGE. THINKING THAT MY SPEECH ISN'T THAT GREAT!!
LIKE WHO CARES?! SO LET ME GIVE YOU ANOTHER EXAMPLE...
OUR WASHING MACHINE BROKE DOWN.
NOW,
IF I WASN'T CONSCIOUS OF MY WORRYING, I WOULD'VE GOTTEN SUPER PISSED OFF, RIGHT?
THAT'S THE NORMAL REACTION TO IT. LIKE I'VE NEVER SEEN ANYONE SAYING,
"OH THE WASHING MACHINE BROKE DOWN?" "THAT'S GREAT. NO BIG DEAL."
NO, THAT'S SUPPOSED TO PISS YOU OFF. NOW YOU'LL NEVER HAVE CLEAN CLOTHES AGAIN.
LOOK,
I SPENT THE FIRST 17 YEARS OF MY LIFE. WASHING MY CLOTHES WITH MY HANDS
WITH SOME SHITTY RUSSIAN DETERGENT. SO WHAT'S THE WORST THING THAT CAN HAPPEN?
THAT I HAVE TO WASH A COUPLE OF SHIRTS. WITH THIS AMAZING COCONUT SOAP I HAVE
FOR A FEW DAYS UNTIL THE WASHING MACHINE.
GETS FIXED?
OR, THAT I CAN'T WEAR MY FAVORITE SHIRT, SO NOW I HAVE TO PICK FROM THE TWENTY
OTHER AWESOME SHIRTS IN MY CLOSET? I MEAN, IT'S SO RIDICULOUS!
ALWAYS ASK YOURSELF, WHAT'S THE WORST THING THAT CAN HAPPEN?
CLEARLY DEFINE THE WORST OUTCOME, AND YOU'LL SOON START TO REALIZE
HOW RIDICULOUS MOST OF YOUR WORRIES ARE, WHICH ACTUALLY LEADS US TO MY NEXT FAVORITE
IDEA... THE ABSURDITY OF IT ALL. SO I HAVE A FRIEND WHO'S CONSTANTLY WORRIED
ABOUT EVERYTHING. AND HE CALLED ME,
AND HE STARTED TO TELL ME ABOUT.
ALL THE STUFF HE'S STRESSED OUT
AND WORRIED ABOUT. AND I SAID,
"OKAY. LOOK. JUST STOP." CARNEGIE TELLS A STORY OF THIS GUY IN WWII,
WHO'S STUCK IN A SUBMARINE.
AND BASICALLY KNOWS THAT HE'LL BE DYING IN
THE NEXT FEW HOURS. AND HE SITS THERE THINKING ABOUT
ALL THE STUFF HE USED TO WORRY ABOUT AT HOME, AND HOW ABSURD IT WAS,
AND MAKES A PROMISE TO NEVER WASTE HIS LIFE. AGAIN LIKE THAT
IF HE SURVIVES. NOW, THAT MIGHT BE HARD TO RESONATE WITH,
SO LET ME GIVE YOU A MORE CONTEMPORARY EXAMPLE.
PEOPLE ARE HAVING THEIR HEADS CHOPPED OFF
EVERY SINGLE DAY. EVERY SINGLE DAY! THE ONLY REASON IT'S NOT YOU
IS BECAUSE YOU WERE BORN IN A CERTAIN PLACE. AND THEY WEREN'T.
THAT'S IT! NOW GOING BACK TO MY FRIEND,
I TOLD HIM, "LOOK, HERE'S WHAT I WANT YOU TO DO."
"EVERY DAY, YOU WILL START YOUR MORNING. BY WATCHING SOMEBODY'S HEAD BEING CHOPPED
OFF." "AND THEN YOU'LL GO ABOUT THE REST OF THE
DAY." AND HE STARTED FREAKING OUT ABOUT
HOW HE CAN'T DO THAT AND.
HOW HE DOESN'T LIKE BLOOD AND
WHATEVER... NOW, HERE'S THE THING.
I KNOW THAT'S REALLY CRASS AND MORBID, BUT I DON'T CARE!
IF YOU DON'T WORRY ABOUT STUFF, GREAT! YOU DON'T HAVE TO WATCH ANYTHING.
BUT IF YOU'RE WORRIED ABOUT STUPID SHIT. ALL THE TIME,
YOU HAVE A DISEASE! SO YOU EITHER TREAT YOURSELF,
OR NEVER ASK ABOUT HOW YOU CAN STOP WORRYING. AGAIN.
EVER.
HERE'S WHAT I WILL GUARANTEE YOU.
IF YOU START YOUR DAY BY. WATCHING SOMEONE ELSE
HAVE THEIR HEAD CHOPPED OFF, NOTHING AND I MEAN ABSOLUTELY NOTHING
COULD POSSIBLY HAPPEN TO YOU FOR THE REST. OF THE DAY
THAT YOU COULD GET PISSED OFF ABOUT. AND NOT FEEL LIKE A COMPLETE RETARD.
YES, WHEN YOU'VE SEEN SOMEONE'S HEAD CHOPPED
OFF, YOU WILL HAVE A WEIRD FEELING INSIDE YOU
AS SOON AS YOU START TO COMPLAIN ABOUT. HOW YOU DESERVE TO BE PAID MORE AT YOUR JOB,
OR WHAT YOU'RE GOING TO DO NOW SINCE YOU GOT. A B+ INSTEAD OF AN A,
OR HOW YOUR WASHING MACHINE IS BROKEN. YOU'LL REALIZE THAT IF THAT GUY HAD BEEN
GIVEN THE CHANCE TO LIVE.
AND WEAR THAT SAME DIRTY SHIRT
FOR THE REST OF HIS LIFE. WITHOUT EVER BEING ABLE TO WASH IT,
HE WOULD HAVE BEEN THE HAPPIEST MAN ALIVE. REALIZE THE ABSURDITY OF IT ALL. THE THIRD BIG IDEA:
STAYING BUSY.
NOW I DON'T MEAN THE AVERAGE BUSY PERSON.
ACTUALLY, THOSE ARE THE PEOPLE WHO WORRY THE. MOST.
THE GUY WHO WORKS 12-HOUR DAYS, AND THEN COMES HOME AND WATCHES FOX ALL NIGHT
WORRYING ABOUT WHETHER SOME GUY CAN MARRY. ANOTHER GUY
OR ABOUT ALL THE FOREIGNERS WHO WILL COME. AND TAKE HIS JOB,
YOU KNOW, BECAUSE HE IS THE ONLY ONE ENTITLED.
TO THAT JOB. I'M NOT TALKING ABOUT THAT KIND OF BUSY...
HERE'S HOW I LIKE STAY BUSY... READ A BOOK THAT I LIKE.
GO TO THE GYM WITH MY GIRLFRIEND. PLAY AROUND ON THE PIANO AND COMPOSE.
COOK AMAZING FOOD.
WORK ON A PROJECT I'M PASSIONATE ABOUT. NOW, HERE'S WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU DO THAT...
YOUR BRAIN CAN'T THINK OF TWO THINGS AT ONE. TIME.
IT JUST DOESN'T HAVE THAT CAPABILITY. YOU CAN TRY RIGHT NOW IF YOU WANT.
YOU CAN'T THINK OF YOUR BROKEN WASHING MACHINE.
AND AT THE SAME TIME,
THINK OF HOW MUCH YOU LOVE PLAYING SOCCER. IT'S NOT HOW YOUR BRAIN WORKS. SO THE BEST WAY TO GET RID OF THE NEGATIVE
THOUGHTS IN YOUR HEAD. IS TO ACTUALLY START PUTTING POSITIVE THOUGHTS
IN THERE.
GET BUSY WITH WHAT YOU LOVE
AND YOUR BRAIN SIMPLY WON'T EVEN HAVE THE. ABILITY TO WORRY. AND FINALLY A QUESTION THAT
REALLY REALLY RESONATED WITH ME. HERE'S WHAT YOU'RE GOING TO DO IN YOUR LIFE...
YOU'RE GOING TO WORK AND WORRY YOUR ENTIRE.
LIFE
SO YOU CAN GATHER A BUNCH OF STUFF, LIKE YOUR HOUSE AND ALL THE STUPID SHIT IN
IT. NOW... IF YOU'RE LUCKY,
AFTER 50 YEARS OF ALL THAT WORRY AND STRESS, ALL YOUR STUFF MIGHT BE WORTH A MILLION DOLLARS. HERE'S THE QUESTION,
WOULD YOU SELL YOUR LEGS FOR A MILLION DOLLARS? LET ME ASK YOU THIS,
WOULD YOU SELL YOUR LEGS FOR A BILLION DOLLARS? I WOULDN'T.
AND YOU PROBABLY WOULDN'T EITHER.
WOULD YOU SELL YOUR ARMS FOR ANOTHER BILLION
DOLLARS? NO? THERE YOU GO,
YOU ALREADY HAVE SOMETHING THAT YOU VALUE. AT TWO BILLION DOLLARS!
ACTUALLY, HOPEFULLY MORE... BUT, YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE ALL ZEN,
YOU COULD BE A GREEDY CAPITALIST LIKE ME. AND UNDERSTAND THIS.
NOW HERE'S WHAT YOU'RE GOING TO DO...
YOU'RE GOING TO IGNORE AND NOT UTILIZE. SOMETHING WORTH TWO BILLION DOLLARS,
BECAUSE YOU'RE TOO BUSY WORRYING AND STRESSING. ABOUT THE THINGS THAT MIGHT AMOUNT TO 1 MILLION
DOLLARS. AT THE END OF YOUR LIFE.
OH, AND YOU'LL BE CONSIDERED REALLY LUCKY.
IF THAT HAPPENS BY THE WAY! ALRIGHT,
I DON'T KNOW IF YOU'RE SEEING HOW CRAZY THAT. IS,
BUT THAT'S KIND OF LIKE HAVING A HUGE MANSION, A PERSONAL JET,
EVERY SINGLE CAR YOU EVER WISHED FOR, AND NOT USING AND ENJOYING THOSE THINGS,
BECAUSE YOU'RE TOO WORRIED ABOUT ONE DAY. BEING ABLE TO BUY A COROLLA.
THAT IS CRAZY! ...AND SAD. YOU ALREADY HAVE EVERYTHING THAT YOU VALUE
AT BILLIONS AND BILLIONS OF DOLLARS.
SO STOP IGNORING, WASTING, AND TREATING IT
LIKE SHIT FOR HOURS AND DAYS, SO YOU CAN WORRY AND BITCH ABOUT
HOW YOUR PHONE BILL WENT UP FROM A $100 TO. A $120..
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